Scars of Change

Sometimes u are surrounded by a million ppl….every one of them your “close” friends, best friends, room mates,sweethearts but at times amongst the crowd u loose urself…u become lost in a crowd of familiar faces most of whom u share a “deep” connection with but do they share the same connection?easy to say don’t care abt it....easy to say forget abt it wen at a point of time in life those faces mattered more than anything else in this world.We make a mistake of loving someone so much giving yourself to them so much that they take you for granted they hold the power, the key to ur emotions,Why??why should we give them the authority when there would have been a time when their mere existence you wouldn have even known.Giving someone the power to push yourself into the darkest corner of ones mood is the most harmful ever….best friends are those ppl who u kno would be by their side wen the world walks out when u walk out on the world…not those who stay by your side when the world rains down with happiness and smiles.Having said that point how many ppl can u actually consider as your best friends..why Is that we only see what we have in front of us??? Why not elevate from our bodies for a minute and stand in front of ourselves and look at ourself…are we what we want others to be??but that question we would never be able to answer u kno why??coz for many of us we are perfect what we said what we do is right which might be wrong in the eyes of others but who cares about others...this life is ours this world is ours the pain and sorrow we may dump on someone else isn’t goin to bother us…..but do remember we are “others” to someone else…the pain and sorrow they might dump on us maybe hard to handle too.So always know that hurting someone even if they are your “best friend” there is always a scar left behind in their memories.When you hurt someone remember your responsible for a change in that person..a change which you would notice or you wouldn but a change that has contributed to the change....change from his true self… a change u have forced on the person